I haven’t posted on social media for almost a year now - only looking, liking, sharing, occasionally commenting, NOT posting on either my...

If you’ve read my posts “DIY Graduate Program” or “Letting grief show up however it wants to,” you’ve seen references to IRF, or Focusing...

A nice thing about a blog centered on relating is that you have a pretty broad field to play in. But back to something that’s a bit more...

This post has resisted being written, or it’s felt like a slog through mud, but this is what I’m learning about grief at this point in my...

As you can see from the title, I reached a decision. But a bit more background on the contributing factors and the process, because I’m...

A couple of months ago I decided to apply to grad school - yet again - in what was mostly an effort to find a more well trodden path to...

I’ve avoided this relationship coaching business of mine for several months now. At least I avoided (read had an allergic reaction to)...

Love and respect instead of entitlement, revisited “Staying away from entitlement and demands is the only way to be sure that you are in...

Love and respect instead of entitlement “Deciding to not base a relationship on a foundation of entitlement is about respecting others’...

Love is abundant, and every relationship is unique "Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that can only...

Andie Nordgren wrote The Short Instructional Manifesto for Relationship Anarchy (the RA Manifesto for short) in 2006, but I only first...

I have a distaste for labels but also love a good metaphor, so here we go. Turns out there are lots of animal and machine metaphors for...

For the first time in my parenting career, I actually got some on-target, interesting, sex-positive info into my kid's hands (the...

IG in its infinite wisdom suggested @thesecurerelationship this morning. As I scrolled through her posts, the really shiny one that stuck...

Here’s something I played with yesterday. I found myself pissed off by a text exchange with a new acquaintance - someone I hadn’t even...